The first date should always be in a public place - restaurant, museum, coffee house would be ideal. Meet your date there.
Have a buddy sysem for dating. Tell your friend where you're going and with whom, and be sure to provide full names and numbers.
Never
seem too available or desperate. Don't
cancel your plans with friends or activities
you love for a date. If a man is interested,
he will fit himself into your schedule.
If
you are meeting your date somewhere,
never arrive early. It's okay to be
fashionably late but no more than 10
minutes. If your date is more than 15
minutes late and hasn't called you,
leave promptly.
Show
appreciation when your date pays for
you or gives you gifts. A heartfelt "thank you" goes a long way.
It's also nice to add a flirtatious
kiss if you like him.
Don't
have sex on the first date if you think
the person has serious potential. It
is more inviting to let the sexual tension
build, and that gives you more time
to get to know who you're dealing with.
Also, many of my male clients have told
me that they lose respect for women
who sleep with them on the first date.
Don't
invite a man into your home until your
feel completely comfortable with him.
Don't ever let a man pressure you about
being invited in.
Have
an air of mystery. Reveal things about
yourself slowly. Remember, you're not
on Dr. Phil.
Wear
clothes that make you feel beautiful
and sexy, and don't say anything negative
about your appearance. Go shopping if
you're not happy with your wardrobe,
and take a friend with you.
Never
talk about how fabulous any of your
ex-lovers were in bed. If you want your
man to improve his lovemaking skills,
learn how to talk to him about that.
If
a man doesn't make himself available
to see you on weekends regularly, he's
not totally available. Keep dating other
men.
Have
an abundance mentality when it comes
to dating. Each man you meet is not
the last man on earth!
Pay
attention to a man's actions, not his
words. If a man doesn't keep his word,
move on. Excuses are a sign that he
is not taking responsibility for his
life.
