Are you single and
dating? Do you have single friends who
call you for dating advice? Here are some
tips to take the stress out of dating
and make it a more empowering, life-affirming
experience.
Define the partner you
want to attract. A clear vision is always
a good place to begin. What qualities
are attractive to you physically, emotionally,
intellectually, and spiritually?
Take inventory of what
you have to offer. What would you bring
to the relationship? Also, look at areas
of potential growth. What character
attributes are you seeking in a partner
that you could develop for yourself?
Resolve unfinished business
with past partners. We can move forward
in a healthy way only when our energy
is completely available for a new relationship.
Seek counseling if you are having difficulty
letting go of the past. It can be helpful
to write down what you learned from
each one of your relationships. See
them as gifts that helped you grow.
Write a compelling personal
ad that accurately reflects who you
are, who you want to attract, and what
you want in a relationship. Have a photo
taken that shows you in your best light.
Be compassionate
with yourself. Know that something can
be learned from every dating experience,
whether you consider it to be positive
or negative. Say, "Every date brings
me closer to the love of my life."
